People are generally more open minded these days but when I first got a phone sex job part time I didn’t tell anyone what I was doing. I remember telling one friend and she was disgusted. She thought it was gross that I was helping dirty old men wank off. I tried to explain that it wasn’t like that and it was actually a lot of fun and the guys who called in were nice, and in a lot of cases, hot…. She couldn’t get over her own preconceptions of any sort of adult industry and we are no longer friends.

Time has moved on, but there are still some ridiculous preconceptions, myths and conspiracy theories out there, some of which are so funny, funnier that there are some who actually believe them, but none the less, I’ve been thinking about this recently and wanted to address a couple of them.

1 People who call phone sex lines are sad, lonely losers.

Its simply not true. Just as there are all sorts of women who enjoy phone sex, there are also all sorts of men. Nearly all our callers are pleasant, successful, well adjusted guys with jobs, friends and a life. The fact of the matter is, sexual intimacy is a human need, almost as important to life and well being as breathing. Abraham Maslow identified this in the 40s, for more on Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs you can read about it on Wikipedia:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow’s_hierarchy_of_needs

In fact, many of our callers have no problem getting sex, its just that they need more. Our callers aren’t sad, creepy or any of those things, they are just horny, its really that simple, if you have a penis, you will enjoy phone sex and the fact is that probably almost every guy you know has enjoyed phone sex at some point. Its not seedy to enjoy pleasure and sexual intimacy with no strings attached. It is fun, satisfying and more sensible than banging some dirty and ending up with an STI.

2 Phone sex operators are old / ugly / men with a voice changer.

This is one I laugh at, but its easy for me. I know a lot of women who take phone sex calls professionally and they are, literally from all walks of life. There are part time glamor models who do it, porn actresses and escorts, on the other end of the scale there are genuinely housewives and young mothers who find it flexible and fun to log on and have phone sex with a few guys in the day, there are girls who work in Bars, hotels, offices, leisure centers. Retired, Students…. basically there is no type. The easiest way to bust this myth is to phone one of our cheap phone sex lines and listen to who’s on line. There’s no faking these sweet sexy voices. Phone sex operators are real women, they have to be. If there was anything scripted / fake about them and if they didn’t truly enjoy the experience of phone sex, then we would not have a business. Anyone who says phone sex operators are all old ladies and dudes has clearly never phoned a good phone sex line.

3 Premium rate phone numbers are a scam / a rip off.

A common misconception, especially in the wake of viral hoaxes such as ‘a girl rings the doorbell with a broken down car asking for help and uses your phone to call a £150 a minute premium rate line’.

This story is a hoax, the charges are actually physically imposable.

Premium rate numbers in the UK are heavily controled and regulated. You have to be an approved, registered operator to have a premium rate number and the rules are clear and strictly enforced. If you advertise a premium rate number, that is a number starting 09xx you must be clear about the price you will be charged. You’ll notice that any time a number is mentioned on this website, the cost is also mentioned.

A Premium rate number in the UK can be set at a price point between £0.05/minute and £1.53/minute. Network extras are also applied by your phone provider which range from a nominal one off connection fee as typically charged by land line phone operators, to a per minute extra charge on top of the advertised per minute rate. Since all networks vary, and change these charges as they please there is no way to be clear on what these might be. The only advice we give is, if you can, dial premium rate numbers from a land line as mobile calls may vary substantially.

For more info about what you’ll be charged, talk to your phone company.

We believe that premium rate numbers are the most convenient, safest way for you to pay for our phone sex services. Other companies, even individual phone sex operators may charge you themselves, you may even be asked to make an internet payment or give credit card details to a girl you’ve seen advertised on a classified website or on an adult services directory. Think about which payment method is safer. With a premium rate number, the service is highly regulated and if you complain, the service and charges will be thoroughly investigated by the regulator. These protections do not apply to an independent business or person taking payment directly from you. Also, because of the regulations and the fact that only reputable, larger companies operate adult phone sex services on premium rate numbers, you are absolutely guaranteed anonymity and discretion.

4 Girls don’t ever actually enjoy phone sex and they fake masturbation.

Of course, I can only speak for the girls on our phone sex lines, but the work is flexible, our phone sex operators choose when to log in and make themselves available for phone sex calls. This means that they only log in when they are in the mood for a bit of flirting and fun.

If they log in and answer the phone when they have a headache, or when they are in a bad mood then they’ll just get hung up on anyway.

ALL our phone sex girls masturbate, enjoy sexual pleasure and interaction and enjoy orgasms. Of course this is a 2 way street, if you just want a quick wank then we are more than happy to help you out with that – and its fun, sure but don’t expect us to start stripping and playing when you just need quick 30 second releaf, on the other hand, if you want to get to know us, really start talking dirty about what you want to do to us, and make an effort to get us off while we do the same for you, then I promise you’ll both be masturbating and climaxing together.

5. Phone sex is crap.

Well, everything can be crap if its not done right. Ever had a crappy meal at a restaurant? Ever had crappy service at a store? Ever had a rubbish blowjob? Most guys have but blowjobs aren’t crap – the person giving it might have been crap or the mood might not have been right.

The thing about our phone sex girls is they are very good at what they do, and what they do is bring your fantasies to life, and provide the sexual interaction you need for complete intense satisfaction. These women actually take pride in being able to get a guy hard using just their voice and their vivid imagination. That’s a skill, and most girls who work as phone sex operators have that skill. If they don’t then they are not in this work for very long.

Yes, phone sex can be crap. But it can be out of this world good. The right combination of flirting and dirty talk followed by mutual foreplay and masturbation while talking each other through it all on the phone is, when done right a seriously intense and pleasurable experience for both parties.

6. Phone sex is dying off, especially now we have internet porn.

Some guys fire up the porn sites for a wank, sure, its easy and hot, but there’s no interaction. There’s no flirting, no getting to know someone and experiencing the thrill of turning each other on. You can double click and see pretty much anything you want on the internet, but that doesn’t mean phone sex is dead.

Phone sex is a multimillion pound industry in the UK alone. Its a multi billion pound industry world wide, and that’s just the companies operating premium rate phone numbers. Add the many millions of girls working independently…. no, phone sex is not dead – as an activity between consenting adults, as a profession, or as a business. In fact over the last 2 years, we’ve seen the calls to our lines rise rather than fall.

As long as there are people who are horny, and telephones, folks will continue to enjoy phone sex.

What is changing is that callers want a first class service and will not settle for second best. The girls have to be real, genuine and they have to enjoy it. If they don’t then you won’t and that just won’t fly.

A good phone sex service needs to offer a diverse range of girls, all of whom good at what they do and excited at the prospect of a hot, sexual interaction with their next caller. In short, as long as there are all kinds of genuinely naughty, horny girls ready to take your calls, we will continue to have many extremely satisfied callers.